Home Sweet Home is emblematic early-ish Mike Leigh, bitterly funny and appalling,
inviting suspicions of condescension, but with too many flashes of desperate verisimilitude
for any such charges to completely stick. A plot summary seems to align the film
with randy workplace concoctions on the lines of On the Buses: postman
Stan has an affair with the wife of one of his colleagues while being
aggressively pursued by the wife of one of the others, things coming to a head
when both women show up at his house at once. But Stan (Eric Richard) is no
working-class Casanova, his appeal seeming mainly based in the contrast with the
two inadequate husbands, and capable of awful self-serving coldness, as in the heartrending
mini-portrait of his treatment of a woman he picks up at the launderette. His
teenage daughter, Tina, has spent most of the time since her mother’s departure
in foster care or group homes; Stan only reluctantly visits her, his inadequacy
as a father pushing him into irritable taciturnity. It’s Tina who occupies the
film’s final shot, suggesting she’s the most major casualty of the whole mess;
a sly late pivot introduces a new social worker who bombards Stan with jargon
while providing an ample window on his own bitter preoccupations. The title is ironic
to a fault of course: as always, Leigh has an eerie capacity to create lived-in
spaces and routines (how many cups of tea were offered and consumed in his work
of this period?), while conveying how the frail economic predictability they
provide is, as Sondheim might have put it, a daily little death. Tim Barker’s indelibly
conceived Harold may be the saddest of the sad bunch, his wife snapping back at
his most basic utterances, a stream of dumb jokes and disconnected utterances failing
to disguise how he’s barely present in his own life, let alone anyone else’s.